Confusing~~

One of my colleagues, malay guy, says he likes me. He is younger than me for five months, he said actually he likes chinese gal just that never meet one is suitable, he said he likes my style. I just get shock because i never facing this before. And i told him, i am older than you, and i am not allowed myself to have a partner that younger than me. Initially, i feel quite uncomfortable when work together with him, but after i close to him, no more uncomfortable, and we often making joke to each others. And, another chinese guy, I've met him last month, when i was running a small event around his company. Before we are going back, he ask for my cellphone number, and i gave him. Since then we keep messaging and go out for lunch together. But not long after that, he told me that he likes me and says the three words to me. But i just felt that it's too fast for me to go for a relationship since we've just met for one month more, am i too 'kolot'? I really don't know. He, since i know him for around one month, he's quite a kind and nice person, treating me good but i don't know it's worth for him to treating me like that?I just hope we can understand each other first. He already gave me few gifts , and sometime i felt really touch when he gives me those surprises. I'm staying in my house with my parents, and i need to spend my time to accompany my parents, i need to work, i think my time is not enough. Sometime i need to go to church, church community, sometime i have got some quarrel with my family, have problem with my job, study, my friends.. I am not sure whether i still have time to love? I thought before to work a part time job as a barista, because i'm interest in that. Well, am i have enough time? And am i have enough energy to do so? Hmm, i think need to think properly and need to plan to manage my time good.